Using saliva or lubricant during sex is a personal choice, but understanding the pros, cons, and science behind each can elevate pleasure and protect health. australianescorts.au (AE) breaks down Sydney-specific tips for making informed, body-safe decisions.
1. The Saliva Debate: Convenience vs. Risks
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Pros:
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Free, readily available, and adds spontaneity.
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Can enhance kissing or light foreplay at spots like Manly Beach sunset picnics.
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Cons:
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pH Imbalance: Saliva is alkaline (pH ~7.4), while vaginal pH is acidic (~3.8–4.5). This can disrupt natural flora, increasing UTI/yeast infection risks.
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STI Transmission: Oral herpes (HSV-1) or gonorrhea can spread via saliva-genital contact.
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Dries Quickly: Practical for a quick romp but unreliable for extended play.
Sydney Tip: Book a throat swab STI test at Sydney Sexual Health Centre (Darlinghurst) if using saliva regularly.
2. Lubricants: The Gold Standard
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Pros:
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Optimized pH/Osmolality: Brands like Sliquid (available at Passiontree, Surry Hills) mimic bodily fluids to prevent irritation.
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Long-Lasting Slick: Silicone-based options like Uberlube (buy at Adore Beauty) stay slippery even in Sydney’s humid summers.
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Safety: Reduce friction-induced microtears (lowering STI risk) and enhance latex condom efficacy.
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Types to Try in Sydney:
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Water-Based: Wicked Aqua (from Club X) for toy-compatible play.
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Hybrid: Aloe Cadabra (Harris Farm Markets) for aloe-soothed hydration.
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CBD-Infused: Foria Awaken (via Alternaleaf Clinic, CBD) to heighten sensitivity.
3. When to Avoid Saliva
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Post-Oral Sex: If giving oral after eating acidic foods (e.g., Messina gelato’s lemon sorbet), saliva may irritate delicate tissues.
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Sensitive Skin: Those prone to BV (bacterial vaginosis) or with lichen sclerosus should skip saliva—opt for QV Cream (from Chemist Warehouse) as a balm.
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Anal Play: Saliva lacks sufficient slickness and may introduce bacteria. Use Pjur Analyse Me! (available at Passiontree), formulated for anal safety.
4. Sydney’s Lubricant Hacks
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Hydration Boost: Mix Sliquid Sassy with a drop of Aesop Resurrection Aromatique Hand Wash (from David Jones) for a luxe, fragrant glide.
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DIY Alternatives:
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Coconut Oil: Perfect for non-latex play (grab organic jars at Bondi Wholefoods).
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Aloe Vera: Use Thursday Plantation gel (Priceline) for external vulvar play.
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On-the-Go: Woo More Play’s Afterglow Wipes (Surry Hills’ Passiontree) for quick cleanups after park trysts at Hyde Park.
5. Communication Is Key
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Discuss Preferences: Use AE’s “Green Light” prompts: “Do you prefer lube or spit?” or “Let’s test this new Sliquid together.”
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Workshops: Learn hands-on at The Pleasure Studio’s (Newtown) “Slide Right” class, exploring friction science.
AE’s Final Take:
While saliva offers spontaneity, quality lubricants deliver safety, comfort, and enhanced pleasure. Sydney’s accessible sexual health resources—from Sydney STI Clinic to boutique retailers—empower you to choose wisely. Prioritize your body’s needs, and let curiosity (not taboo) guide your play.
Glide with confidence. Learn more at australianescorts.au.
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